Validation
I have been so worked about my review because of all the lies that my coworker had said about me:
– My bosses think I’m difficult and hard to work with
– My coworkers hate me
– I have a negative attitude and its bring the department down
You know what? None of it is true! My boss complimented me on how I don’t let things bother me and I’m pleasant with my coworkers. I got a raise and huge bonus. So much for all the BS started by one person.
I still don’t know what her game was. And surprise, surprise she’s using someone here to get me to text her back. I’m suspicious that I haven’t returned calls or texts and the first thing she asked this person was, “What did I do to you?” Not “Are you okay?” or “Is anything wrong?” Guilty conscience much?
I know it’s wrong but I take some perverse pleasure in making her sweat it out. Passive aggressive? Yes. But it’s payback for all the mind games she pulled with me this year knowing FULL WELL I was battle through some tough times.